I want to..

Why... Why I'm changing.. why.. I told myself that I'm doing this for him... Or more I'm doing it for her best... But why am I falling deeper and deeper... I tried resisting, but why it always ended up with my heart getting this heavy... My mind just want to scream so badly I Like you.. but my heart just could beat and quietly be by your side.. to tell you the truth except this... Cause All I want to do is to make you happy... But all I'm seeing now is I'm making things complicated and you are frustrated and annoyed by me... I must really stop going deeper and deeper.. let the water drown my body and take along this feeling for you together... Let my soul turn cold and avoid from making you sad...

Its been a week

Its been a long time since I last posted,about the recent updates... The past few days was due to the bad line problem faced in the campus.. but in return I never knew that this girl that made me skip a beat.. turns out to be the first girl which I comfortably talk with.. the way she thinks and the things she want seem utterly different from what many girl would think and want.. she's finding for someone which she can walk the long winding road with in a slow and comfortable pace... She the one I've been looking for.. and now she is right in front of me.. but yet I know where I stand.. and today I got my confirmation that this guy really likes her... I can see it through his expression and in the same time I just didn't know why I would run the whole distance just to give her back her pendrive... And if the world really ends.. I guess she will be last one that really took my heart away...

Day 2 - It is okay..

Sometimes it may seem selfish.. but I rather be one than to be the one that scar you life.. I'm nothing good.. or in another way of saying is that I'm only capable hurting you more than trying to create more happy moments for you.. if he is the guy which can bring you more happiness than sadness.. I would be more obligated to make you his.. though it may hurt and unbearable for me.. but your happiness will be mine.. cause it's okay..

Day 1 - I'm Officially Back

I thought I had abandon this blog,
This very blog which records ever single sadness and scar left in my life,
I never even think that I would blog again.. or rather I never even think that i would fall for someone anymore,
I thought The wall I created around was thick and tall enough.. and till now it's strong..
But the problem is that I'm the one whom had decide to walk out of the encircling wall,
And now I'm back here telling again a new chapter of a brand new sadness..

Mission 1...Distancing
I felt that this guy like her.. And they said it wasnt her type.. but what i could think was like that time I went for a girl which clearly I wasnt her type.. but in the end when she decides to fall it was too late.. I moved on..
So though I like this girl now.. but everytime I see that guy, It really reminds of me in the past..

Many said sometimes you gotta be selfish in certain things especially in things that you want,
but if I'm being selfish, I'm just being someone that hurts me in the past..
And how sure can I be that she even likes me,
Look at me.. I'm nothing.. I have nothing at all..
That's why I decided to go for Mission 1 - Distancing..
I guess it's time for me to know my place..
I should stop doing things that attract her attention,
Though that's the only way to make her look at me,
Still It's for the Best..
Hopefully Mission 1 will be of a success..
Hopefully that I can prove that even if you are not someone's type.. with sincerety and patience.. Nothing can stop you at all..
Though it hurts.. It's for the Best..
That's for her best..

Is it the right choice..

I really don't know what I'm doing anymore... Why am I choosing the same path.. knowing that all it leads is the sadness that I once experienced.. why am I still making this choice.. I really tried asking my heart.. why.. I could never be sure that she's the one that I've been hoping for.. nor can I say its just another fluke situation of my own confusion.. I really wanted to treat her nice, talk to her, get to really know her more than what I could see with my naked eyes.. but everytime I tried, I just felt scared, deep inside me was like having the fear of making her feel annoyed, leading to her avoiding me... And when I see this guy talking to her.. tapping her head, I felt a disturbance iny heart.. I felt sad in the same time envious.. but most of all.. I saw the both of them like they were meant for each other.. he's a nice guy, better than me in many ways.. so good that all I could think was she deserve a better guy than me.If I continued to do those stuff.. one day she might even hate me.. more than I could ever hate myself.. so as I started to quietly observe how he behaves, my suspicion that he likes her is getting stronger and stronger... It was like I have already lost the battle even without trying to fight.. That feeling was really hard to explain in words.. it was like I was happy that someone is treating her for what she deserved to be.. and in the same time I was devastated that I'm the end it comes to the same conclusion... What was I thinking.. from the start I didn't even stand I chance at all.. why did I walk out from the wall I built tall so hard.. did I really hope that I could broaden my horizon.. or I was just being naive from the very start till now.. Even though her friend said that the guy wasn't her type... I believe that if one is sincere, nothing matter at all.. you accept him/her for who they really are.. and even when her friend ask if she goes for me, will I consider it or not, deep inside me I wanted to just say really, she likes me.. then I just should had gone for her instead of her making the move.. but in the end, all I did was denied and said no way she will like me ,Just look at me.. I'm nothing and I have nothing.. he's better than me in many ways.. It hurts saying that.. but its okay.. she deserve someone which canake her smile instead of making her smile hiding a sad face behind it.. Just Deep inside me I wish I could be the one make her the happiest girl in the world.. but in reality, I just can't..

IT'S OKAY, LET IT BE, IT'S FOR THE BEST....

Is it real

I don't know what I'm suppose to feel anymore.. I wanted to help.. but it made me feel helpless..
Everyone have their own method of doing things... All I could do is to advise and be a listener most of the time... But in the end who is gonna be my listener..
I'm really not sure whether I had fell for someone or not.. but its really hard for me just to try to be nice.. it always lead to people misunderstood my intention.. but I in the same time do not prefer to bully her always.. haih.. decisions are hard to make as always..
And I dunno why but my instinct kept on telling me that that guy likes her.. I couldn't make any confirmation but I'm pretty sure my instincts were right...
Will I feel glad if he makes a move on her..... I dunno and hopefully I wouldn't know...

When does the time comes???

8 years passed so fast since the start of Secondary school life..

It took me one whole day to reminisce all those memories being a Student..
Those happy moments being with those whom shared the same interest,

The guy which I should have met sooner.. but it wasn't that late at all..

He show me to the world or Animation and Manga.. which is now one of my addictive habits..
He show me his world which was full of intriguing events.. His past was the knot of our friendship,

His sadness was the moment of our brotherhood..

He was the closest to me.. Yet now he is in a land.. far away from where I am..

All I could do was to wait for updates on his Facebook account and to call him out when he's back....
He is and will always be the guy that I'll want to be by his side.. to be a brother that knows no limit for he is Fook Khoon.. the guy that show me what true friendship was all about..

Next is when Form 6 life started.. A new journey had been taken.. New friends.. and brand new experience.. This time was the best schooling life I ever had.. Skipping classes,Sleeping in the class..

Be the guy whom everyone knows and everyone is like a family when I'm in Form 6.. many of us were from different school.. but together we created a large family.. Doing the orientation with the juniors was far most the best family activity we could ever do.. and never would I forget the guys from Band 6.. which was the best moments of my life.. Hanging out at Edmund's place for practice.. doing crazy stuff.. going for Minums always.. and becoming a family... Life will never be that satisfying if I had chosen to go private instead of Form 6... 

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That's only the Nice part.. when it comes to the heart-breaking moments.. I felt empty.. Hopeless..

All my time I kept trying to tell myself that I just got to love to be loved back..But things just doesn't seem so east at all.. I tried twice.. thinking that My feelings could open her heart... but I guess.. things weren't as naive as that.. And so it took me a year and ++ to just tell myself i'm ready to Move on.. i'm ready to just give it one more shot.. To tell life that i'm ready to love and be loved once more.. but.. When does the time comes to do that.. Should I just go for anyone.. or should I just wait for the right one to come and Singalfy me that she's waiting for me to just Say... "Hi, I'm Mathew, I may not be perfect now.. but I just wish that I could know you more and hope that you be the one that makes me a perfect guy"... When will the time come??..
When.. any Idea.. nope.. So for now I'm just again.. looking at others finding their other half.. having someone to care for.. to just text and talk anything.. at any time.. Man.. I'm kinda of a little Jealous...